Complete Guide To Become an Professional Elite Escort

A courtesan or high-end escort is a professional companion who caters for refined gentlemen, seeking far more than a pretty face or someone to bed . Choosing to become an escort is something that requires a lot of thought and preparation. Once you’ve decided this is something you’d like to do, the process of actually becoming an escort can seem pretty daunting.

As with most new business ventures, you may have to be in this for a while before you really start to make good money with it. Many people assume becoming an escort is an easy way to make fast money – but it can be a process to get started and finding clients (even through an agency) can take time.

Not only that, but escorts need to be good at what they do. A companion or escort needs to excel at morphing into whatever the client needs them to be, whether it be a one-off date to an event or someone with whom they can create a deeper, more intimate bond with over several sessions.

While on the fringe of the ‘adult industry’ as it were, the elite courtesan and travel companion is not promoted via tasteless and demeaning photos of herself in various states of undress, or marketing of her physical attributes only.

She is promoted to the gentlemen seeking a ‘real woman’, a fresh and authentic young lady for whom escorting is not her full-time career.

She is a true companion, providing emotional intimacy, mental stimulation, and psychological support. Sure, she looks great in a bikini, but that’s just the tip of the iceberg. She will not be pigeon-holed as a sex-object, nor spend time with those who regard her as such.

high class escort model creates a very deep and special connection with her gentleman friends, as opposed to providing a ‘service’ and promptly forgetting him as she moves on to the next. She meets fewer callers on a higher level, to retain her exclusivity and freshness.

Which is exactly what these gentlemen seek and pay for. She is an authentic person, not a ‘worker’. And she only meets with equally sophisticated gentlemen, so as to expose herself exclusively to tasteful, mutually loving engagements. She is not a red-light girl, a prostitute or a blow-up doll.

At the higher end of the industry, there are of course some conditions, as well as actions you need to take. Not every woman is suited to the elite world, and not every woman has what it takes to be an elite companion or travel escort.

Escorting vs Prostitution – what’s the difference?

An escort can also offer sexual activity as part of their various services or packages, but not always. Most of the time, an escort’s packages will include things more along the lines of intimacy, closeness, connection, friendship, etc. Really, you’re selling your time and your bond with the client, as an escort. When there is an exchange of sex in these services, it opens the escort up to prostitution charges if prostitution isn’t legal in their area.

Is prostitution illegal? 
In many places, yes, prostitution is illegal – like in much of the United States, for example. However, in some places (like the Netherlands, Brazil, Denmark, Ecuador, Germany, Austria, etc) prostitution is legal and often even regulated in some way.

In order to find out if prostitution is legal in your area, you may need to do some research.

Is being an escort illegal?
This is a loaded question because it all comes down to how your country/state defines an escort. In California, for example, under law, an escort is different from a prostitute. An escort agrees to accompany a client to a social event or provide entertainment in exchange for money. This is considered a service.

However, if that escort agrees to sexual conduct as part of those services, this could be considered prostitution and they could be charged with prostitution.

Incall vs Outcall Escorts – what is the difference ?

Incall escorting is when the escort receives clients who come to them. This can mean that the client comes to either the escort company or the escort’s home to receive services.

Outcall escorting is when the escort goes to wherever the client is. This would have the escort meeting the client in their home or where they choose.

Which should I choose? Well, that’s up to you. Some escorts prefer one of the other, only offering one type of service, whereas others like to be flexible and do both.

There can be pros and cons to each. For example, with incall escorting, your clients may come to your home or agency and some people wish for more privacy than that. Whereas outcall escorting, you’re forced to go to someone else’s home or a hotel room which can make some people feel uncomfortable.  Ultimately, you will need to decide for yourself what you are most comfortable doing.

Brief Steps

1. Read through this guide on what it takes to be an elite companion escort.

2. Take the steps required to accomplish yourself to that level if required.

3. Decide whether you wish to work independently or with an agency.

4. Set up a website/ or research to find an acceptable agency with whom to work.

5. Make a plan for all the money you are going to make and save. Don’t waste it by living the high life. Be smart.

Things You Need  To Have To Qualify as an Elite Escort

1. Overall Look – First and foremost, obviously this is an industry based on image, much like the modeling industry. You need to be fresh-faced, classically beautiful, with a flawless complexion and pleasant features.

And much like a model, you need to be a ‘blank canvas’, to be able to cater the client’s preferences to some degree. Tattoos are prohibited (if you want to cater for truly high end callers), and your hairstyle needs to be mainstream and suited to you.

Lavender or pink hair is all well and good in your own life, but not for work. 😉  So facially and surface-image wise, you need to be a classic beauty. If you would not be hired by a commercial model agency, and have not been told ‘you’re so beautiful’ all your life, then you may not be suited to a courtesanship.

While conservative cosmetic surgery can change that, too much work can ruin your look, so any over-done work, fillers, botox etc. need to be avoided. Natural beauty is imperative.

2. Physique & Lifestyle – Continuing on from the first point, you need to be physically exceptional. This is not to say there is any one type of shape or height that works, but that whatever your shape or height, you need to be in phenomenal physical condition.

Whether you have an hourglass shape, or a supermodel stature, or the androgynous look of a ballerina – you need to be exceptionally fit. You are working at an elite level – like a top model, an elite athlete or an accomplished actress.

You need to be eating very, very carefully, (not restricting calories, eating lots of good real food: fruits, veges and salads) – and working out religiously every day (not crazily, just consistently.) There is no place for eating disorders, a lazy lifestyle, a nonchalant approach to your health, regular ‘partying’, or fluctuating body size. You are exceptional, you are a queen. Attend to yourself as such.

You must behave and take care of yourself like you’re of value. Because you are. There’s only one if You, and that’s pretty rare and special. Again, some minor surgery to smooth some little bumps or balance things aesthetically can assist if done conservatively. This is a personal choice, but should definitely not be over-done. An out-of-proportion bust, over-pouted lips, frozen features or scars from surgery are unacceptable.

3. Education – There are two different types of education. While traditional schooling education, in general, is seen as rather bourgeois by the elite set, it is still something bowed to and considered a standard requirement, to prove one’s ability to commit to and achieve something in youth.

While one is not supposed to allow one’s free mind and spirit to be re-shaped and boxed into the ‘university’ way of thinking, one is expected be able to show the ability to follow convention and spit out results that fit into the cookie-cutter expectations of the system.

And then we have the more organic education of life – music, opera, theater, art, travel, conversation, interaction with other cultures etc. There is no university that can teach the soul to feel the passion evoked by Mozart. No college can teach the compassion and empathy that Botticelli inspires.

No traditional schooling can create the height of emotion conjured by an opera or the excitement of being in a new city or location for the first time. A combination of these is required in a good companion. This requires a certain type of upbringing, to be exposed to this level of culture.

4. Breeding and Personality – While the two don’t always go hand-in-hand, for a deluxe gfe escort, they must. Your background needs to include a ‘normal’ (i.e. mainstream, healthy) upbringing, sans drug or alcohol problems, abuse, poverty, etc – Not that any of these are anyone’s fault by any means, but this exposes one to an unhealthy environment that rarely leads to healthy behavior.

One needs to have been brought up with a decent amount of protection, care, and a peaceful calm environment, with proper hygiene, manners and housing. One also needs to have been afforded the freedom to be oneself. Thus developing one’s natural personality, unmarred by oppression or duress. A light-hearted, tolerant, and curious nature is most successful in the elite companion arena.

She is kind, gracious and dignified, even in unfortunate situations. She doesn’t speak unless it’s to say something beautiful wherever possible. Open minded and amicable personalities do best, where one is friendly with everyone, and easily strikes up interesting conversations with new people. Deportment is obviously a given; if she doesn’t know how to walk, sit, eat and conduct herself elegantly and properly, without airs and graces, she is not yet suited to be labeled ‘elite’.

An empathy and compassion for fellow human beings is a must, in order to be able to attend to someone in this capacity, to create the required connection. Natural intelligence obviously goes without saying; possessed as an innate talent, as well as having been developed through excellent education, mentioned above. If you expect to walk into the date in designer clothing, have a lovely chat, give the gentleman a wonderful massage, lay down to have sex, then leave, you have entirely missed the point of the elite courtesan world.

5. Talent – There’s no point having a great look and all this knowledge and personality, with no real talent or form of expression… You’d simply be a lovely, live ornament. A confident and accomplished courtesan is also well versed in some areas of sports and expression – the more the better. In Victorian times, a proper lady was not ‘marriage material’ or even courtesan material until she had mastered a list of things every ‘proper woman’ could do.

This is not about making herself ‘worth’ anything – she is already enough. It is about investing in herself to add to her value. Obviously a woman with abilities is far more helpful and fascinating than one who requires being waited on constantly.

Whether equestrian skills, skiing, tennis, playing a musical instrument, singing, dance talents, home decor, admin skills, cooking, an immense knowledge and experience in a particular area, an extensive knowledge of wines and spirits – the list is endless.

An elite escort brings all this to her dates, and provides whatever is required to participate in her gentleman’s preferences. She is able to discuss his work and ideas for the future, and give genuine, intelligent feedback and advice during conversations. She knows when to be humorous and flirtatious, and when to be serious and understanding. She listens more than she speaks.

She is able to perform at any event, function or situation he may require her to attend. She doesn’t need to know EVERYTHING – nothing is more engaging for a man than to be able to teach his paramour something. The ‘little damsel’ fantasy that most men are biologically attracted to. However, she needs to have basic knowledge, and be a quick learner.

A lot of general knowledge and some specialty talents is a perfect balance. And if you are going to be intimate with anyone in your life, a date through the agency or in your own life, make it your business to be phenomenal. Research, practice techniques and be memorable, not a cold fish!

6. Style – This is an important point, especially in today’s societal climate… Showing one’s shape is appealing. Showing flesh is common, trashy and unacceptable in high society. That’s just a fact. Outside of a swimming pool or purpose photo shoot, her image is protected. The courtesan wears a very understated, classic style – and she wears it well. Her aim is to be unobtrusive; elegant and understated, but never ever showy or ‘noticeable’ for the wrong reasons.

She favors neutral and tasteful colors. She favors fitted pencil skirts worn below the knee, appropriate elegant footwear, jackets tailored to fit close at the waist, and scarves to protect her décolletage from environmental damage, and from prying eyes! (Other than those of her chosen lovers or paying clientele.)

This woman is exceptionally selective for herself, though always polite and gracious, careful nit to offend anyone. Her self-respect does not compel her to seek validation by splashing her ‘wares’ to all and sundry. She knows she is a special woman, a queen, an exceptional individual inside and out.

She protects herself appropriately, and presents herself in tasteful, appropriate fashions. Rather than wearing ‘the latest trends’, or flashy, gaudy outfits, she wears what is suited to her shape and her elegant style. Nightclub or ‘bodycon’ dresses are never, ever acceptable. Teetering on massive platform shoes, or oddly designed shoes is not exactly understated or classic. Large jangly jewelry, heavy perfume, heavy make up and very low-cut tops are never seen on a truly elite woman.

7. Reliability and Integrity – If you aren’t able to do what you say, be where you say and deliver what you say, you are not suited to be an elite escort. You cannot make dates and not turn up. You cannot allow an agency to promote you then not be available.

Wasting peoples’ time is extremely unprofessional and disrespectful. If you expect to be considered elite, promptness and trustworthiness are basic requirements of professionalism.

A quality woman honors her word, and a courtesan is nothing if not completely honest, authentic and honorable when it comes to her reputation. She is the quintessential ‘cortigiana onesta‘ (the honest courtesan).

Things To Do To Facilitate a High End Escort Career


    • If you don’t have this privileged breeding and upbringing, at least attend deportment classes at a classic deportment school, established at least 50 years or more. Include elocution lessons – even if you feel you speak well, the concurrence that you speak beautifully from a professional orator is always a lovely confirmation!
    • Go to see an image consultant to confirm your look and style is that of an elegant, well bred women. Get a second opinion…
    • Have your hair and makeup done professionally – watch the makeup artist, and take classes on how to apply tasteful, elegant makeup. Not glamor makeup, but proper, natural looking, fresh-faced makeup. Anything you apply to yourself should always look like it is naturally yours. As such, massive long eyelashes are out of the question. However, tasteful eyelash extensions that look entirely natural can be acceptable. You need to look as good without make up as you do with makeup – so make sure your skin is immaculate underneath. (A very clean, plant-based diet and loads of water!)
    • Take some classes in horse riding, tennis, skiing, swimming, snorkeling, scuba diving. Take up an art, learn a language. Learn to play piano or flute, cello or clarinet. Take a class or 12 on wine appreciation. Take a class on art history. Know something about classical music – who is your favorite composer? Why? What are his origins? How often do you actually listen to his pieces? Can you recognize which composer has composed a piece of music, if played to you..? Is it Verdi, Mozart, Bach, Beethoven, Chopin, Mahler..?  Were these artists all composing in the same era? Which ones lent their music to operas? What is the proper name for a song sung in an opera? – These are all basics you should know. Which is your favorite opera? Do you even really like opera? One generally loves it or doesn’t. How about ballet? Do you know the famous historical Prima Donnas? Do you have a favorite Ballet performance?  Invest in yourself and in your cultural and historical knowledge. You cannot cater to gentlemen of this caliber without some exposure to and knowledge of high society.

If your cultural knowledge extends to the latest reality shows and the latest celebrity gossip only, then you are far away from being able to perform at an elite courtesan escort capacity.

Once you have bought yourself to an appropriate level of refinement, (and can hopefully pronounce it all in French or Italian lol!), now it’s time to decide whether you wish to work as an independent courtesan for yourself, or to work with an appropriate and professional high class escort agency. Herein can lies the difficulty. There are many pitfalls in both. But played properly, you can succeed in either:

1. Independent– You are able to set your own hours, your own fee, and select your own clients directly. However, you have a lot of expense in setting up a professional image with a website and continued advertising. There is no security behind you, you will attract a ridiculous amount of cheap, time-wasting idiots, and negotiating fees can be extremely demeaning.

Screening and going through all the sometimes distasteful inquiries can sometimes remove the lovely fresh innocence and femininity that a women has when she is kept exclusive to lovely gentlemen. However, you do have absolute control of your career with nobody to answer to. And if you’re a ‘tough’ type already, then you won’t be affected, and would be less successful in a selective agency. Keep in mind also that many agencies will not work with ladies who have worked independently in the past, depending in which country you operate.

2. Agency – You have instant professional promotion and expensive marketing to benefit from – assuming they understand the concept of the courtesan. You can usually set our own fee to some degree, as long as the agency is agreeable. A good agency will allow you to select your clients also. Any escort agency forcing you to meet people you don’t want to meet is and agency to steer clear of.

You have good security behind you with a quality agency, and all the screening is done professionally by the agency. You never have to see all the disgusting inquiries they filter out for you. A quality escort agency, somewhere really high end like models agency , will afford you some level of control over your promotion and image, and will offer full training for new people.

But they will need to know your availability in order to properly promote you. Although, if you can’t be reliable enough to work with an agent, you might not be at the courtesan level anyway. Even as an independent, you need to be extremely organized, prompt and reliable.

Final Verdict

If you do decide to work with an agency, then you have the tedious task of sifting through the many thousands of websites set up by people trying to make money at all costs, and find the few quality, established organizations who exist solely to bring quality people together. The former will behave with underhanded practices, lie to clients, demand you meet people and do things you don’t want to, and potentially even refuse to pay you (for good honest work you have completed without complaints!) Try to avoid these, obviously… You want a professional agency operated by decent people. Not always easy to find.

To find these agencies, do some thorough research. Once you’ve made a short list, the only way to truly test an agency is to work with them. See where they send you, how they treat you, what happens when it’s time to be paid. Don’t base your choice on how ‘busy’ you are. Being sent anywhere and everywhere is not a sign of success…

The only way for an agency-staff situation to work is for both parties to be honest, transparent and respectful with mutual care for your safety, and the happiness of both yourself and the client. If either the agency or the companion is deceitful or untrue, there is no way to continue the beneficial arrangement comfortably.

There are many more points to consider, but we’ll leave some of the discoveries to your own opinion and experience. 🙂  As long as you steer clear of agencies expecting you to be involved in taking, selling or transporting drugs, or those whose management wishes to ‘try you’ first (!!), or those who put pressure on you to meet with someone or do anything you don’t feel comfortable doing, then you may be okay.

Be very careful, because a lot of agencies are set up by ex-clients or ex-working girls, trying to make money. They are not professional business people, and they don’t always do what they are promising… Your life is in their hands, so be very careful. Don’t be fooled by big promises and flash.

Find out the fundamentals like how they screen their clients. For eg., many agencies take their clients through a particular screening software or consultation, which is what most professional organizations will do. Find out what their cut off points are (why they would turn down a client, if at all).

Find out whether they are on the side of the models, the clients, or an equal balance of both. If there is a problem like you’re lost, do they help you or leave you to figure it out? Find out how long it takes to be paid for credit card appointments. Do they offer any training or any transparency on how their organization operates?

Be smart. An intelligent girl like you should be able to sniff out a quality agency, and enjoy a fun, luxurious and tasteful career – assuming you can bring equal quality to the table.

You Need to Know before Hiring an Escorts

Most people hire escorts from agencies that offer such services to clients. If you decide to hire escorts from an agency you will get several benefits. The good thing about hiring  escorts from agencies is that they are screened for quality and not any of the escorts is accepted. Therefore, you can be assured of having a great experience with them. It is also good to take great care as you select the escort agencies.

Independent escort

There are many  escorts who work independently and do not work with an agency. Most of them do this, so that they can earn more from the clients. It is good to note that most of the independent escorts are smarter and more intelligent. A high number of them will provide high quality services, own their websites where they promote their personal escort services. They are better because they are more flexible than those working under agencies and can tweak their services if you pay more.

The escort must be above legal age

Hiring an escort who is below 18 years of age is, therefore illegal. Therefore, ensure that you do not hire an escort who is underage to avoid conflict with law enforcement services.

Verify their medical agencies

It is important to verify medical details of any escort you hire. This will help you avoid any health problem when you come into contact with the escorts or have sex with them. Genuine independent escort will carry copy of their medical records with them. It is important that you do not skip this step.

Utilizing the services of  escorts, or friends for the night, is not new in our social order; point of fact, it has been around for many years from diverse extraordinary human advancements. In spite of its long history, not a lot has been changed on the desires and services offered by escorts.

Escorts are known to be exceptionally quiet and tolerant with their customer, however like whatever available escorts on the planet, they can have their breaking points. As people, they merit each generosity and admiration, so when you need to delight in the organization and get the best conceivable services, you might as well never be deigning or rude to your  escorts. Be an accurate respectable man and show empathy and behavior that you’re deserving of her opportunity. Nothing turns on ladies more than great and sweet demeanor.

Escort services is a business, and escorts get paid by their offices through you. They utilize this cash to pay their bills, purchase perishables, and so forth. Requesting a freebie is the most unjustifiable thing to do to an escort. Regardless of the possibility that you’re the most blazing and handsomest man nearby, don’t squander your escort’s opportunity and pay the concurred cost.


News about prostitution in Singapore

Singapore has always been a “hub for escorts,” according to author and journalist Gerrie Lim. In Lim’s newest book Scarlet Harlot, he puts the number of female sex workers in Singapore at 4,200.

“But that’s bullshit, if you don’t mind me saying so,” he told VICE. “There are definitely more than that.”

He’s right; the 2019 National University of Singapore study from which that number was derived has a margin of error between 1,600 and 10,000 — and that was before the coronavirus.

Rebecca*, an independent escort who uses the online moniker Risqué Rebecca, is one of those uncounted. She told VICE that the pandemic made an outsize impact on her goals this year.

“It really made me reconsider,” she said. “I think maybe I did feel the same amount of dread as I did when Backpage went down.”

When Backpage, an international advertising site used by sex workers, was closed by United States federal authorities in 2018, Rebecca lost 70 percent of her income and nearly quit the industry. However, this time she isn’t looking to leave. Seeing her regulars’ names pop up in her inbox still makes her happy. Balancing escorting with her full-time office job, she said, “I’ve been very lucky … I love everything that I do. I really, really take a lot of joy.”

Rebecca got her start in the sex industry as a sugar baby. Escorting, though, offered her more control.

“I can set my boundaries really, really clearly,” she said. “Per hour. And there’s no expectation to be a girlfriend to anyone beyond that certain amount of time.”

For her first three weeks as an escort, she worked at an agency that took half of her SG$1,200-per-hour rate ($900), before she left to set up shop on her own. She now gets three or four inquiries every week, and keeps the full fee she charges. Depending on the agency, escorts can find themselves parting with between 30 and 70 percent of their earnings in Singapore, according to the best guess of Richard*, an agent who runs SG VIP Escorts.

An agent like Richard screens for red flags and prank callers, markets his escorts, and arranges client rendezvous. Agencies like SG VIP Escorts can also register with Singapore’s Accounting and Corporate Regulatory Authority for a legitimate business license, as long as they only ever advertise carefully-worded companionship or girlfriend experiences. Still, some escorts prefer the ‘do-it-yourself’ method.

Zeynep  is a Singaporean escort who has been sugaring and escorting independently for four years. Having never worked with an agency, protecting her identity has been a combination of instinct and trial and error. There’s now no overlap at all between Villanelle and what she calls her “civilian life,” where she’s a university student. She has two phones, keeps a smaller ‘real’ purse inside her Villanelle bag, and photoshops her tattoos out of her website’s photos.

Complicating matters is an internal hierarchy within the sex work community itself, where certain jobs and services are more stigmatized and disdained than others. Sometimes called the ‘whorearchy,’ sex workers separate themselves into tiers based on fees, how many languages they speak, how much sexual contact they have with their clients, or whether they charge based on time spent versus specific service performed. Of sex workers who charge per act, Villanelle said, “they call themselves escorts too. I guess my definition of ‘escort’ is different. I would consider that prostitution.”

The stigma and discrimination is the same, though, no matter what “tier” you occupy. Power is in the hands of everyone except the sex workers, Vanessa Ho, the executive director of advocacy group Project X, explained.

“People impose this hierarchy upon the industry. However, the reality is that sex workers across the spectrum lack access to justice because of criminalization, a vulnerability exploited by unscrupulous people. The fact is that if someone were to pick up the phone and call the police, anyone is susceptible to being arrested.”

Whether or not an arrest is made, escorts are subject to a unique kind of workplace scrutiny and harassment. From escorts who ‘host’ out of hotels, Project X has heard stories of maids going through trash, looking for used condoms, guards watching CCTV footage, counting the men who go in and out of the room, and clandestine raids by plainclothes officers bearing cameras.

At the most basic level, sex work in Singapore is legal. But the law is “confusing and oftentimes contradicts what happens in reality,” according to Ho. “It’s not like the police are deliberately trying to arrest the workers. It’s that their protocol says that if they are presented with a crime, they have to investigate it. And in their minds, sex workers, by performing their work, must have committed a crime.”

Most recently, a 2016 amendment to the Women’s Charter criminalized advertisements that “facilitate” sexual services online. In outlining 146A in 2019, then-Senior Parliamentary Secretary Sun Xueling explained that the amendment was intended to aid a crackdown on pimps working online. But Ho said that she knows several social escorts who have been increasingly worried about 146A recently. “These women are all independent workers. And our thinking is, well, if they’re arrested, are you saying that they’re pimping themselves?”

There’s no monolithic experience when it comes to being an escort in Singapore. But doing sex work, especially when you manage it all yourself, isn’t something anyone can just pick up and do. It’s only when you’re willing to potentially have sex with a stranger, develop the knack to hot-wire chemistry, and be mindful of your own safety at the same time, that you can turn a profit.


Truths and myths about watching porn too much

Porn has transformed over the past few decades, due to the availability of the internet and faster web connections. It is also becoming more immersive than ever before. Take virtual reality. Earlier this year, researchers from Newcastle University in the UK pointed out that VR changes the experience of porn from detached observer to protagonist. They warned that this has the potential to blur the line between reality and fantasy, perhaps damaging relationships and encouraging harmful behaviour.

But what does the evidence actually say about how porn may or may not be affecting people? Can research provide any answers? The truth is that it is a difficult question for scientists to study. The nature of porn dictates that researchers must either rely on people self-reporting their porn habits, or show it to them in laboratory settings that are unnatural.

That said, there is a growing body of literature that can provide hints. BBC Future reviewed what researchers have concluded so far:


The fundamental question surrounding porn videos – which resurfaces every time a violent crime involves the perpetrator’s porn use – is whether it has the power to encourage, normalise or even trigger acts of rape and sexual violence.

This possibility has been explored for decades. In the 1970s, for example, Berl Kutchinsky, a professor of criminology at the University of Copenhagen, measured sex crimes in Denmark, Sweden and Germany as they legalised porn in the late 60s and early 70s. He found no correlation between a rise in crime and decriminalisation – and in fact, some types of sex crime fell during this period, including rape and child molestation.

In 1995, a meta-analysis of 24 studies, involving more than 4,000 participants, measured the average correlation between porn use and the beliefs people hold around rape and sexual assault. The studies all used the “rape myth” scale, which measures a person’s beliefs by asking them to rate how much they agree with statements including: “A woman who goes to the home or apartment of a man on their first date implies that she is willing to have sex”.

Those who watched porn accepted more rape myths compared to a control group, but only in the experimental studies. Non-experimental studies – which relied on participants reporting information – showed no correlation. So, the findings were somewhat inconclusive.

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However, in recent years, porn has been accused of becoming increasingly violent. A veteran porn star said in a recent documentary about porn that, in the 1990s, it constituted “making love on a bed,” and having “lovey dovey sex”. But in 2010, researchers analysed more than 300 porn scenes and found that 88% contained physical aggression. Most of the perpetrators were male, and their targets female, and the latter’s most common response to aggression was to show pleasure or respond neutrally.

So what does the more recent research say? One review of more than 80 studies in 2009 concluded that evidence of a causal link between porn use and violence is slim, and any findings proving a connection are often exaggerated by the media and politicians. “It is time to discard the hypothesis that pornography contributes to increased sexual assault behaviour,” wrote the authors.

Neil Malamuth at the University of California, Los Angeles has carried out numerous studies examining porn and sexual violence, including one involving 300 men, and concluded that men who are already sexually aggressive and consume a lot of sexually aggressive pornography are more likely to commit a sexually aggressive act. But he argues that porn isn’t the cause of sexual violence. In 2013, he told BBC Radio 4 that porn consumption can be compared to alcohol, suggesting that it isn’t inherently dangerous, but can be for those who have other risk factors.


Watching porn could shrink a part of the brain linked to pleasure, according to a study from 2014. Researchers at the Max Planck Institute in Berlin looked at the brains of more than 60 men while they looked at pornographic images, and quizzed them on their porn-watching habits.

The found that the striatum, a part of the brain that makes up the reward system, was smaller in those who watched a lot of porn – meaning they might require more graphic material to get aroused. But the researchers couldn’t conclude if respondents with smaller striatums were driven to watch more porn, or if their frequent porn-watching had caused it to shrink – although they “assume” the latter is the case.

Further down the body, erectile dysfunction is often blamed on desensitisation cause by watching porn – but there is a lack of research to support this. In fact, watching porn could actually help sexual arousal, according to researchers from UCLA and Concordia University, who found that men who watched the most porn report feeling more sexually aroused when shown porn in the lab.


“My friend wanted his girlfriend to dress like a porn star and do what a porn star would do. Porn is so easily accessible. You see guys watching it in the classroom on their phones; on the bus.”

This quote, from a 17-year-old, featured in the UK government’s recent inquiry into sexual harassment and sexual violence in schools. But while porn has been blamed for its effect on relationships – particularly between young people, research has tended to focus on adults. And the findings are conflicting.

Watching porn makes men lose interest in their partners, came the warnings after a study by Douglas Kenrick in 1989. The study was “hugely influential” in psychology, according to Rhonda Balzarini, a PhD student at the University of Western Ontario. However, in November last year she carried out similar trials, using 10 times as many participants  – 150 heterosexual females and 400 heterosexual males over three separate studies – and disputed its findings.

She showed male and female participants nude magazine centrefolds of the opposite sex, as well as clothed photographs, and abstract art, and found no difference in how much men and women reported that they loved, or were attracted to, their partners afterwards.

Although, Balzarini concedes, the results between the two studies may differ because the original study was conducted in 1989, when the abundance and content of porn was very different to what it is now.

Contrary to this, a study published in May this year found that starting to watch porn can sometimes be a predictor of divorce. Drawing on three sets of data between 2006 and 2014, researchers found the likelihood of divorce was doubled for Americans who began watching porn. Those who said they watched porn two to three times a month had the highest likelihood of separating. The study doesn’t, however, resolve whether starting to watch porn is a cause of divorce or a symptom of an already unhappy relationship. And, importantly, the study also found that people with a very high viewing of porn – at least one a day – were less likely to divorce than those who never watched it.


Porn has long been accused of getting between couples’ sex lives. This might be because of the type of porn consumed, according to research that found men who watched more porn were less satisfied with their sex lives. But the opposite was true for women.

Researchers suggest this could be because woman are more likely to watch porn with their partner, instead of alone; and men typically watch less consensual sex acts when watching alone. Another study found that those who watched porn with their partners reported feeling more dedicated and sexually satisfied in their relationship compared to those who watched it alone.


Of the many negative effects porn is said to cause, addiction is usually high on the list. One study from the University of Cambridge likened porn addiction to drug addiction, after finding that they both trigger the brain in a similar way.

Straight, male participants – half with compulsive sexual behaviour (CSB) and half without – were asked to rate sexual and non-sexual video clips while they underwent fMRIs. CSB, often referred to as sexual addiction, involves an obsession with sexual thoughts, urges or behaviours that can cause a person distress, and negatively affect their job, relationships and other areas of their life.

It emerged that three regions in the brain found to be more active in those with CSB are also activated when drug addicts are shown drug stimuli.

Those with CSB reported higher levels of desire towards sexually explicit videos, but didn’t necessarily like them anymore. This dissociation between desire and liking is consistent with a theory underlying drug addiction, called incentive motivation, where addicts seek their addiction because they want it, rather than because they enjoy it.

But the researchers concluded that, while they found that the brains of those with CSB mirrored that of drug addicts, that doesn’t necessarily prove that porn is addictive.

The UK National Health Service likens sex addiction to drug addiction – and states the disorder can include having a porn habit that feels out of control. But although porn can be a component in sex addiction, whether porn itself can cause an addiction is yet to be proven.


Porn has been found to make people more open minded and comfortable about sex, but one study found it could make people a little too comfortable.  Homosexual men who watch more sexually explicit porn where condoms aren’t used are less likely to use protection themselves, according to a survey of 265 men. If the porn they watched did feature condoms, they were more likely to use them, too.

Condoms aren’t too popular in the porn industry, where actors are regularly checked for STIs instead. California rejected a proposition last year that would have required porn actors to wear a condom in all their sex scenes, despite exponents arguing it was necessary to reduce the spread of STIs between actors. Critics said it would have driven the porn industry out of the state.

Porn has also been linked to sexual promiscuity, with some evidence suggesting that watching porn is associated with a sevenfold increase in the likelihood having casual sex. But this was only found to be the case for people who are unhappy.

An analysis on data from 2002 to 2004 indicated that those who watched more porn had more sexual partners and more affairs, and were more likely to pay for sex. Like many other studies on the subject, however, it’s unclear whether porn caused these behaviours, or was sought out because of pre-existing factors underlying them.


Porn has long been blamed for fuelling sexist attitudes and setting unrealistic sexual expectations. Research has provided contradictory results, but one study delved deeper. Researchers from the University of Copenhagen and University of California in Los Angeles asked 200 adults about their porn consumption and assessed their personality in terms of agreeableness, which is one of the “big five” personality traits that indicates how altruistic, helpful, trusting and sociable a person is.

After the participants watch porn in the lab, researchers found that increased porn consumption was associated with negative attitudes towards women, including stereotypes and hostility – but only in men who had low agreeableness, which is one of the five personality traits of the “big five” test.


Watching porn has been linked to a multitude of problems for individuals and wider society – but for every study maligning it, another clears its name. Often, evidence is mixed, and the research methods and sample sizes of studies have their limitations.

Will the future of ever-more immersive porn may bring with it more risks? It’s too early to say.

The question of cause and effect comes up a lot with research into porn: does porn attract more people with sexually aggressive tendencies, those who are in unhappy relationships, those with smaller reward systems in their brain and those with sexual addiction – or does it cause these things? It’s a tricky area to research – but until the answers are more definitive, the evidence so far suggests that the likelihood that porn has a negative effect very much depends on the individual consuming it.


Exclusive Confessions of a True Madame

I interviewed Debra over the course of several weeks in order to prepare for ghostwriting her memoir. Debra is a slight woman with a calculating stare and a bubbly personality. Either way, you’re thinking of a woman in charge of a house full of prostitutes, who runs her girls with a firm but loving hand. It’s true that some madames are exactly like that. In those meetings, she shared many insights into her history before becoming  and her experiences as  a madame.

Her background is very dark

A safe and happy childhood eluded Debra ; who only managed to escape her sexually abusive stepfather by running away from home as a teenager. Things didn’t get any easier, though — from the time she was 16 well into her 30s, she managed to date assholes: guys who hit her, scammed her, abused her, and robbed her.In a darkly ironic twist, Debra took the burden of this pain and manipulated her way into the hearts and wallets of other men later on. She took up exotic dancing, and after a few hundred times of being asked to do a little more than dance for a lot more than dollar bills, she forayed into prostitution. The first time it happened, she’d been asked by a regular client to join him for a weekend trip… and to invite along some additional female guests to be his traveling companions. She said at the time, it didn’t feel surprising. These asks were just natural progressions of what she was already doing. Plus, they were opportunities to make more money — opportunities she took.

Debra  has hundreds of stories about milking regular clients for thousands of dollars in the club, for investment money out of the club, and for gifts and favors that would make a senator blush. She was happy taking the power in a work relationship. But as soon as that relationship became an affair, she relinquished control instantly; voluntarily. I personally saw that in action while negotiating the contract to write for her. She wasn’t an unreasonable bargainer, but took control of the conversation instantly and was completely frank about what she needed financially and professionally.

Madames rarely consider themselves as such

Debra hired me to do a stripper memoir with a stronger angle toward her more legitimate business ventures than the part with the T&A. She was proud of some real estate and event management she’d made decent money from, and considered herself a businesswoman. When she began telling me stories about convincing, coercing, and even threatening women in order to get them to have sex for money, she was honestly surprised when I called her a madame.

Famous people are part of the package

Madames like Debra  aren’t overseeing the stereotypical group of women frequenting street corners — they’re arranging nights, weekends, or vacations with companionship to the tune of four and five figures a night. That means money, and money means celebrities.One of Debra’s straight jobs was as a promoter for a Vegas nightclub. During that time, she gave VIP treatment to visiting bigwigs — including sports stars, politicians, musicians, and the head coach of a college basketball team.

Debra claimed she wasn’t particularly starstruck by most of these encounters: they were just more chances to make big money. But one time, as a madame, Debra  set up an encounter for a lead player on her favorite basketball team. She found out he was coming to town through a handler, made arrangements through that intermediary, found a “partner” for him, and arranged “delivery.” She was excited to meet the athlete during the hand-off; but admitted to ultimately feeling a little disappointed in him for his proclivities.

“Weird” is just another workday

And, actually, violence plays a role in the fantasy element of escort services as well. Jenny told a story about a man who stopped her at random at a gas station and offered her $100 to slap him in the face. She talked him up to $200, then hauled off and hit him. Debra told me she’d see him from time to time on the Strip and he would always make the same offer. Each time, she hit him, he thanked her, and he disappeared into the night. Jenny knew a variety of “specialists” who were happy to indulge in any fantasy you can imagine — plus a bunch of fantasies you can’t imagine.

The weird didn’t stop at fetishes , sex acts, or inserting every imaginable kind of Tab A into every standard-issue Slot B found on the human body. Debra’s girls role-played with clients and assumed names of those clients’ daughters. They accompanied clients to events while posing as wives or sisters. And a surprising number of Debra’s workers simply gave back rubs and basic spa treatments.

Once you cross over into this world, Debra explained, it becomes easier to break right through any taboos that present themselves. If you have someone willing to pay for sex, the kind of sex  , and the behaviors surrounding it , is pretty wide open.

The Most Sexiest And Famous Pornstars Ever

There are some whose name barely a hundred people know, as well as those who are renowned for one thing or the other, like their bedroom skills, beauty, intelligence, bottom power, or earth-sized titties.

I have created several articles in the past on this website, but I have always focused on featuring pornstars who are still very much active in the industry in all those articles. That meant that I had to ignore the legendary performers who were our only support when we were going through puberty and learning how pleasurable it was to play with our cocks. So, I though of creating this article listing the most famous pornstars of all time, featuring not just the active performers but also the ones who have been retired for a long time but still are just as popular as they were during their prime.

Asa Akira

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Asa Akira is the first Asian XXX star in this famous pornstars listing and by Jove is she naughty or what! Asa Akira is petite, slim, and so skilled in the arts that all she has to do is wink at you to make your cum factory start putting out unpaid overtime! Her boobies are lovely, enhanced, and very firm 32C puddings, while her booty is perfect enough to cause a saint some problems! Asa used to be an exotic dancer and dominatrix, before focusing on getting nasty with pornstars of either sex, for our collective cum-fabulous orgasms!

Priya Anjali Rai

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Priya Anjali Rai is the only Indian pornstar on this list but she is one of the most famous pornstars of all time without a doubt; and she sure is a breeze of fresh air, huge titties and a big ass! Priya is voluptuous, just a little bit dark-skinned and looks so exotic I feel a need to enlist her help to lead me to the promised land of cum outbursts for the rest of this month! She has a pretty face, black hair, fake tits and a mouth that can suck the iron out of a steel rod!

Lisa Ann

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Hope your cock is in the mood to welcome this gorgeous MILF starlet, because Lisa Ann is on her way and she doesn’t brook any opposition! Lisa has massive fake tits and the skills, attitude, and a body to match. This Italian starlet is 48-years old, slim, and the recipient of enough awards to make the staff of the Guinness World Records blush! Lisa freely gives her pussy to anyone that expresses interest and is perhaps most famous for parodying Sarah Palin.

Alexis Texas

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Texas appears full of blonde, hot, and blue-eyed temptresses and I must tell you that Alexis Texas is the queen of them all! She’s got a fab body, a phat booty that holds most of the world hostage and natural 34C tits you could never take your eyes away from! A booty like hers could make an angel drool right in the presence of God and she graciously lets XXX stars of all sexes manhandle this chunk of pleasure mountain and explore its caverns!

Madison Ivy

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Madison Ivy has won so many awards and conquered so many hearts it is hard to believe she doesn’t stand 10-feet tall! She’s only 4’11” and built like a sex house on wheels! This blonde 31-year old MILF used to dance and shake her fanny in strip clubs, before making the switch to the adult world, where cocks too long to be measured burrow into her snatch and simply refuse to come out of that super wet, warm and grippy hole till they have cummed enough in it to drown a tadpole!

Brandi Love

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Need a fab MILF in your life teaching you all the ropes and letting you see what she can do when called upon to sit on a dick? Brandi Love awaits! She’s a tall and pretty blonde with eyes that sparkle with life and humor, plus the kind of fit & athletic body that could seduce any living thing that has a woody through which blood flows! Her 34E boobs are the products of a surgeon’s work, and she has an unusual passion for sexual gymnastics. Brandi is never too far away from a cock and she does perch on them like they are the most exclusive thrones!

Diamond Jackson

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Diamond Jackson is a 54-year old black MILF pornstar who specializes in making multiple cocks convulse at once during orgies and bukakke action scenes! She was a cheerleader in high school and in 2007 took up the task of cheering up dicks worldwide and giving them a great reason to keep on rising, and pouring forth heavy doses of life-giving liquid! Tall and equipped for action with massive fake tits, she boasts the kind of oiled pussy that makes the world spin once you are deep in it!

Mia Khalifa

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A famous pornstars listing which doesn’t include Mia Khalifa would be unthinkable at all levels! Mia is famous for many reasons, like her assets, skills, personality and the fact that she’s an Arab starlet who boldly sucks cock on the big screen and rides on the same like she’s going forward to the biggest battle of her life! She didn’t stay for long in the porn industry and did only a handful of scenes, but there’s no denying of the kind of influence she left behind as she’s one of the most popular babes even after years of leaving the industry!

Stormy Daniels

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Never heard of Stormy Daniels? She’s that lady that President Trump was supposed to have banged and news of that has made her one of the most famous pornstars ever. Before she got the mainstream recognition, Stormy was known as that sultry blonde with enhanced jugs who likes having her kitten licked and penetrated by any dick that could stand the heat that this flappy hole produced!

Aletta Ocean

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She used to be a pageant winner, before deciding that porn was the right industry for her. Aletta Ocean is a Hungarian hottie whose long legs, big ass, and impossibly-pert haunch make you wonder just why it should be legal for a female to look so good! Her booty has a bottomless ocean for an asshole and jamming this tightly closed with a rigid cock is guaranteed to make her cum on the double!

Moriah Mills

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This thick and curvy XXX star is carrying enough succulent meat on her front end to weigh down a truck! Moriah Mills is meaty, slutty to the bone and so booty-blessed you get instant admittance to cloud nine if she squats over you and sits on your face! Wouldn’t you know it, but big boners just love spearing her snatch and capturing enough sweat meat to last them for weeks!

Julia Ann

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At 50-years old, Julia Ann is still beautiful enough to seduce a king and give him the kind of boner he could rule the world with! She’s blonde, bisexual and sweet-faced, curvy, tall, and rocks enhanced 36E fake jugs. This MILF pornstar has a smile you could fist a dragon for and the kind of body you wished your girlfriend had! Watch her videos if you haven’t already because you’ll be begging to be her sex slave soon after!

Gianna Michaels

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This lady goes by a lot of names, not that it matters all that much because she is assuredly worth searching for. Gianna is nearly 6-feet tall and every ounce of that is soft, but toned meat, with her F-size natural jugs getting enough attention to confuse a military satellite, while her big booty hosts the perfect entrance for any pleasure-loving dick! As to be imagined, this babe has a cunt that is a positive cock magnet, and the most massive boners are always finding their way into it!

Samantha Saint

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Even the saints on high have been cumming to the onscreen antics of this stunner while acting like butter wouldn’t melt in their mouth! Now, Samantha Saint is one of the loveliest girls in this famous pornstars listing by a mile and a half and is one of those beautiful babes who are so horny they could fuck a load of gravel! She’s somewhere between slim and buxom and is totally toned, leggy to the bone, blonde and busty with pierced nipples, plus the recipient of multiple awards. And did I mention how nasty this girl can be once the cumming spirit is in her!

Tera Patrick

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If you had the time and cared to do some research, you could easily fill a textbook with the list of awards that Tera Patrick has to her name! These awards confirm her extraordinary talent and entertainment capabilities and make her eligible for being on this famous pornstars listing. Tera is 5’9″ in height, highly beautiful and voluptuous and always in the frame of mind to finger a slippery snatch or let a cock show her the cumming way!

Jenna Jameson

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This former stripper and model is not just one of the most famous pornstars but also one of the richest pornstars this planet has to offer, and at one time was known as the “Queen of Porn.” She’s slim, blonde, blue-eyed, and has enough skills to fuck a bucket of juice out of a statue! If you are into vintage porn, this XXX star is an excellent choice that will surely get your cock nodding with ease!


2021 Porn Actresses Who Climbed To The Charts

The adult and porn industry currently has more top pornstars than ever, and as we say goodbye to 2020 and hello to new year 2021, picking a top list is getting even harder. You might not agree with all of the ladies we’ve listed but we hope you agree that they are all hot and sexy  – let us know in the comments if you don’t agree with any of the girls and suggest girls that you would add instead!

Valentina Nappi

Valentina Nappi Top PornstarEveryone’s heard of the Italian beauty Valentina Nappi, it was an oversight for us not to add her sooner – thank you for all the comments pointing out our error. To make room for Valentina we have demoted Nicolette Shea – the next person to be demoted will be Lana Rhodes unless she picks up her game. Anyway, back to Valentina; she’s curvy (which we love) and her generously-sized 34C tits are all natural, which is great. We’re also fans of the bit of hair she keeps around her lady region – it’s totally in keeping with her Italian heritage. Oh, and did we mention she has an amazing ass?

Gabbie Carter

Gabbie Carter PornstarGabbie only entered the porn scene this year (2019) but she entered with a bang, almost over night she went from a noone to being featured by most of the top porn studios (surprisingly she hasn’t been on Brazzers yet), it wasn’t just the studios that loved her, porn fans around the world couldn’t get enough of her incredible all natural tits, slim figure and cute face. Her best scene in our opinion has probably the scene she did for Naughty America’s ‘My Daughters Hot Friend’, though, so far we’re yet to see a scene of hers that we haven’t liked. She’s definately one to watch in the coming years and if she carries on the way she has been she’ll go down in porn’s hall of fame.

Liya Silver

Liya SilverYou could easily think that this sexy senorita is Spanish not just from her looks but also becuae she does a lot of work with Spanish porn studios, however, you would in fact be wrong this naturally busty olived skinned beauty is in fact Russian and she’s one of the hottest Russian pornstars we’ve seen in a long time. We love her tattoos, we love her tits, we love her figure so yes we love almost everything about her in the looks department. The only thing we can criticise her for is her ‘performances’, sometimes her scenes can be a little boring but her looks far outweigh this small negative as there’s other things you should be busy doing while you’re watching her get naughty on the camera.

Susy Gala

Susy GalaSusy isn’t a new pornstar, she’s been around for years. However, compared to when she first started out in porn she is a totally different woman; what we mean is that—in the nicest way possible—she wouldn’t have made it onto this list with the way she used to look, but now she’s arguably the hottest Spanish pornstar right now. You won’t see much of her on the big sites like Brazzers, but if you take a wander over to Cum Louder you’ll find plenty of videos of her (for free too). She’s easily the top pornstar in Spain.

Jade Kush

Jade Kush PornstarWe wanted to add a be more variety to the list (as requested by readers), so here we have it. Say hello to Jade Kush, who is probably our favourite Asian hot pornstar at the moment, especially considering she’s only been in the industry for a year. This 20-year old (almost 21) stunner originates from China but has been brought up in the USA. Her best feature? We’re not even going to answer that, just look at the picture above and decide for yourself (yes, they’re natural)


Mother And Daughter Giving The Best Sex Experience Ever

This is a story about a mother, Abby Ordman and her daughter, Barb. Abby is 43 and Barb is 20. Both women have trim bodies and brunette hair that is wavy and falls just past the shoulders. Barb’s breasts are slightly larger than her mom’s, but both are well proportioned. The two looked shockingly alike, more like sisters despite the age difference. Barb has been away to college and has just finished her sophomore year. The college is local, though, about 30 miles on the other side of the city. Barb had been struggling in her classwork the initial semester, partly due to the long drive each way, parking hassles at a largely commuter college, and the newness of college classes versus high school. She finally accepted her mom’s suggestion to give dormitory life a try to eliminate some of the distraction and tension. A major addition to tension for both Abby and Barb was Barb’s father who shortly after Barb moved out, divorced her mom.

After receiving the divorce papers, Abby hired an attorney who uncovered an affair by her husband. The attorney also uncovered several financial accounts that had been clumsily separated and hidden. Her husband’s affair, it seemed, had been going on for several years. He had already made several major purchases with and for this other woman and they planned to marry as soon as the divorce was settled. These discoveries would put a major wrinkle in his plans.

Abby’s attorney was successful in not only locating several financial accounts and detailing the illicit affair, but found medical records of the woman to indicate she was pregnant by the husband. The divorce took much of a year, though the husband assumed Abby would be clueless and he would be gone with a large portion of his wealth. That turned around quickly. Abby not only took the house clear of mortgage, but also his two most prized vehicles, an SUV and sedan. The house sat on an acre of private land in a “nice” part of the city suburbs. The house was 3,000 square feet, much too big for only her, with a pool, and three-car garage. She also “made off”, as she thought of it, with 75% of his wealth. She hired a wealth manager and didn’t have to worry about working or Barb’s college, again.

Abby felt betrayed, abandoned, and alone after the divorce, though. She was frequently depressed by the betrayal and at a loss when she tried to think about the future.

“I can’t believe the sized of this house, Barb.” Barb and Ty met near the beginning of Barb’s sophomore year and this was the first time she had brought him to her mom’s home. “I swear, I think this place could fit almost two of my folks’ houses.”

Barb dropped her box, still wondering where her mom was. “Yeah, well, my dad was an asshole, but an asshole who was really good with money.”

From above them, they heard, “Well, that was before he decided to divorce me. Not that I hold any ill-will against him.” Almost lost with a much-softened voice, “I hope that slut he married walks out on him.”

Abby had joined them in the foyer. Barb was shaking her head at Abby’s last comment. “Oh, come now, girl. Saying that is much better than hoping he rots in hell.”

“Mother!” Changing the subject, “You remember, Ty?”

“Of course, I remember Ty.” She gave him a hug, then her daughter. “I had to drive up to campus and take you two out to dinner to meet him, but … hey, I’m just mom.” Barb raised her arm as if to swat at her and Abby put up her hands in self-defense. “Take a joke, honey.” She looked at Ty and asked, “How much more is there?”

Ty rolled his eyes, “Women … seriously, I have no idea how this much stuff came out of that dorm room.” Barb looked like she was going to hit Ty, now. Ty and Abby laughed but Barb picked up her box and huffed as she took the stairs. Ty shrugged and followed.

Abby watched the two of them and smiled. Barb was such a sweet girl and she hated that one of the first things coming out of her mouth was her divorce. Somehow, she needed to get past that. Ty, short for Tyrel, is a very handsome black man a year older than her daughter. After knowing each other for less than a year, Abby had the feeling Ty was very good for her daughter. At least, that was what she saw in her daughter’s eyes when she was around him.

She promised herself right then, she would find a way to be better. She would find a way to change her life in a way that would be amazing for herself and her daughter. Barb deserved so much more from her. She would find the way to give it to her, to be the support and encouragement she deserved.

After several weeks being home, Barb’s concern for her mom hadn’t eased. She found her listless and unfocussed. She remembered the woman, the mother who was so active in her life without being overbearing or controlling. She always had room to move and discover, largely because of the relationship they shared; her mom had that kind of trust in her. Barb missed that woman. She wanted desperately to have that woman back in her life. But she also realized that her mom needed to be that woman again for her own good, so she could move on and find the measure of happiness and contentment and fulfillment she deserved.

Barb finally dragged Abby out for an evening with her and Ty. She didn’t give her an alternative, insisting that she needed to get out and enjoy herself for at least a few hours. Ty met them at one of their favorite bars where they could talk if they wanted or dance to the DJ music provided. They sat in a booth with Abby sitting on one side. Abby’s impressions of Ty were in reinforced watching the two of them. The young couple quickly fell into an easy, comfortable banter about friends, school, and the summer. Ty was staying on campus during the summer as he had part-time positions at the Student Union and tutoring in Economics.

The two had danced a number of times until Barb convinced Ty to ask Abby. With some reluctance, Abby accepted the offer. It had been years, a lot of years, since she had danced last, but Ty promised to pick slower songs for her. Shyly, she accepted. The first dance was an early classic rock song she remembered but couldn’t name.

Abby confided her awkwardness of dancing with her daughter’s boyfriend. He responded, “Mrs. O, Barb is just worried about you. She thinks you need to have some fun.”

Abby looked into the young man’s face. He was a full six inches taller and trim, but strongly built. He was very comfortable and confident in his action and she understood why her daughter liked him. “Well, first … don’t call me ‘Mrs.’ anything. As you can guess, my marriage didn’t end well and I don’t want reminders.” He apologized. “Just … call me by my name. It feels weird. I mean I’m an older woman and mother and I am not in some crisis where I am trying to relate to my daughter’s boyfriend in desperation.” She fell quiet for some minutes. The song changed but the music remained slow. “Maybe I do need to find something in my life to give me joy and pleasure … something to allow me to move forward with something.” She looked into his eyes. She had more to drink already than she had in a while because she refused to drink at home by herself. She liked this man … she liked him a lot … and she was happy for her daughter. But did she really want another relationship with strings and commitments and expectations of the future? She seriously wondered about that.

Abby giggled and glanced at her daughter as she moved to the cupboard for a mug. “I haven’t … I sleep naked now.” She watched the surprised … shock? … look Barb returned to her. “I thought I should have something on for when you got up.”

Barb sat down kitty-corner at the table. “You’re teasing me.”

Abby laughed. “Partly, yeah. I do sleep naked, now. I started when you father left. Don’t ask me why. But, no, I don’t walk around the house that way.” She looked at Barb who was also in an old tee-shirt. “Is that Ty’s?”

Barb looked down at herself and nodded. “But … I guess like mother, like daughter.” She smiled. Abby shook her head. “It looked like you were having fun last night.” Abby confessed she did. “That’s what I mean, mom.” They talked about the night before and Abby confessed the nice things Ty had said to her. Barb corrected her. “Those weren’t just ‘nice things’ that he said. You didn’t notice the other guys watching you. You are a very attractive woman, mom. You should have some fun.” Abby laughed. Being honest to herself, she had to confess she didn’t know how to begin. As if reading her mother, Barb pushed, “Seriously, mom, when was the last time you were fucked?”

Abby responded with shock. First off, ‘fucked’ had never been in her vocabulary. Secondly, this was her daughter. She was telling her mother what she needed was just a good … fucking? She didn’t know if she should show anger or … what?

“Honey, I can’t even imagine getting into another relationship with commitments that might lead to … that. I can’t deal with that, at least not now and maybe not ever, again.”

Barb took her mother’s hand and got her attention, “Then don’t. Just have fun with it. Mom … sex can be just sex. Sex can be more, yes, but it can also just be people having fun. Sex is fun. Sex is exciting. Sex is intimate. But it doesn’t have to be bigger than that. It doesn’t have to be a big-deal with all kinds of strings attached.”

Abby was the mother but she was the shy, nervous one in the direction this was going. But she pushed herself on. She told herself she wanted to make a change and here her daughter was trying to help her. Abby’s response was tentative, not at all sure she should continue this train of thought. “You’re talking about a sex friend?”

Barb giggled, “Well, we call them fuck-buddies.”

Abby just looked at her daughter. She had been sure since late high school that she had been sexually active and she knew she was protected. She knew sex wasn’t the answer for everything that bothered her, but she also knew it was a great tension reliever. “Why does it sound like you are very familiar with the concept of a ‘fuck-buddy’?”

Barb laughed. “Ty and I are really tight, mom. I mean, he might be the guy, but we’re not rushing into anything for a while. And, yes, there are times that for us when sex is more than just sex. We also just enjoy sex, though. And, yes, sometimes that is with friends. We have fun partying, and that sometimes leads to multiple partner sex.” Abby just looked at her daughter. Who was this woman so casual and comfortable with sex and partners? But Barb hadn’t forgotten an unanswered question. “Mom, you never answered me … how long has it been since you’ve been fucked?”

Abby sighed and directed her eyes to her empty mug instead of her daughter. “A long time. Four or five years.”

“Four or five … that’s longer than …”

“Yes, daughter, longer than we’ve been divorced. I was so stupid … so trusting. You know, I might be madder at myself than your father. How could I have been so stupid? I thought it was all work and being tired and us getting older. It happens to married people, right? They drift apart and lose the fire?”

Barb stood and encircled her mom in her arms, again. At the same time, she resolved to do something about it.


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I was tired and a little drunk from three beers I sneaked at a party. My parents were still at the bowling lanes; they wouldn’t be home until after midnight. I didn’t know where my sister was but she was sixteen, I didn’t need to babysit her, and I didn’t particularly care where she was or what she was doing. I headed for my room and pulled out a XXX DVD and stuck it into my laptop. As I got ready for bed the video started. It was a favorite. A seventeen-year-old boy becomes a man with his step-mother, then he fucks a couple of her friends, and finally her sixteen-year-old daughter, his step-sister. The end of the video has my hero fucking both the mom and daughter as the light fades into darkness. I was eighteen and was still waiting to get my first piece of ass. I imagined myself in the video with those four hot women.

About the time the step-sister was giving my hero head, I heard a knock on my bedroom door. I jumped, startled by the interruption, then closed the lid of my laptop before snarling “Who is it?” I was irritated that someone had interrupted my self-indulgence. I was naked under the blanket and my boner was aching from the pressure of built-up lust.

The door opened a few inches and my little sister Claire stuck her head in and asked “What are you grouching about.”

“You’re bothering me. Go away.”

“What are you doing?”

“I’m trying to get some sleep, now get your bitch ass out of my fucking room.”

Not only did she not get out, but pushed the door wider, stepped inside, and closed it again. “I heard voices, you watching a movie?” She lifted the lid on the laptop and the video began to play again. Claire stepped back and watched as the kid on-screen rammed his hard meat into the girl and started screwing her, the step-sister’s boobs were bouncing all over her chest while she got fucked. My sister turned to me and said “I thought this is what you were doing,” then backed up and parked her ass on my bed and turned back to the screen, “Who is she?”

I wanted to shock her, to get her out of my room so I said “That’s his sister. She got too nosy so he’s raping her.”

“Don’t look like rape to me; she looks like she’s enjoying him a lot.”

“Damn it, Claire, turn it off and get your sorry butt out.” She didn’t move so I kicked at her but the blanket softened to blow.

Claire looked over her shoulder and smiled impishly, “Are you naked under there?” she quizzed.

Her question made me wary, “No.”

My sister stood up, grabbed the end of the blanket, ripped it off me then threw it on the floor, in half a second I was lying completely nude in front of her. She grinned hugely and said mockingly, “Oh Travis, you lied, you’re naked.” My erection had deflated a little but she looked directly at it then asked “I’ve only seen one live prick before, is that as big as it gets?”

I felt myself burning red with embarrassment but something else was happening to me. My cock started to grow larger again, reacting to Claire as she watched it. Her eyes were glittering as she glanced into mine and asked “Have you ever had sex?” I couldn’t answer her, I couldn’t make any sound as I looked back at her. My silence gave me away, “Me neither, I almost did with Jacob but he squirted all over my clothes when I touched it and I didn’t go out with him after that,” she said then added, “but I still want to.”

“You want to go out with him again?”

“No, I still want to have sex.”

My throat tightened but I managed to croak, “You’re only sixteen, that’s too young to be doing that yet.”

“What do you know about it? Maybe you played checkers when you were sixteen, but a lot of boys and girls my age play other types of games. Let me show you, you’ll see, I’m old enough” she began to unbutton her blouse.

Claire peeled off her blouse, she wasn’t wearing a bra. Her tits rose firmly from her chest in twin mounds of smooth flesh and skin. Her nipples extended from the light brown circle at the tip of them. She was flushed around the neck and face, her cheeks glowing in the dim light. I watched, fascinated, as my sister unhooked her skirt and let it fall to the floor. She looked me then turned in a full circle, showing me her body. At 5’5″ she weighed maybe 110 pounds. Her shoulders and back slimmed to a waist I could span with one hand then flared out as her hips and ass then rounded down to firm thighs. Her panties were white lacy high cut briefs that accented the curve of her thighs and butt. She finished the full circle facing me again. I could see a shadow of pubic hair hidden behind the thin lace.

My cock had exploded to full strength while she was putting on the show, my embarrassment burned out of me as a morning fog burns off from the sun. Claire stepped closer to the bed, looked at my hard-on which was aimed at the ceiling then put a finger in the band of her panties and pulled it from her stomach then offered, “You want to take them off me?” She let the elastic snap back against her skin.

This was too sudden; I couldn’t figure out exactly what was happening, “What the hell are you doing Claire?”

She pointed to the monitor where the kid was fucking the girl, “I want to do that and I don’t want to wait anymore.” She looked back at me, I saw her shiver, she said cautiously, “We can do it together.”

“I’m your brother, we can’t do that.”

Her moment of timidity faded and she announced firmly, “Of course we can, you have a stiff prick and I have the place for it, right here,” She put a hand into her panties and rubbed her crotch, and justified, “You don’t have a girlfriend, I’m not dating but we both want that,” she nodded to the monitor again. “I watch this stuff on my laptop and it’s fun, but I think it would be more fun if a boy was with me.”

That got my attention, “You watch porn too?”

“Sometimes, and guess what I found, and it’s something I kind of think about.” I was thinking blowjobs, but she surprised me, “I look at videos with brothers and sisters doing it.”

“Brothers and sisters, together?”

Claire sat on the side of the bed and put her hand on my thigh, a couple of inches below my erection, “They fuck and it looks like fun.” She nodded at the video where the step-sister was bouncing on the boy’s cock, “We can too if you want.”

I glanced at the monitor then back to Claire, my prick was as hard as it ever felt, it was thudding with pressurized lust. I was yielding to my sister, “You watch brothers and sisters doing it? Show me.” I grabbed my computer, shut off the video, and handed it to Claire. She smiled big then sat on the bed next to me, her tits bounced and swung back and forth, enriching my view and thoughts of her.

We sat side by side, she typed into the address bar and in moments the monitor was full of sex videos. Claire didn’t stop there, she went to ‘search’ and entered ‘brother and sister’ then a new set of videos popped up. “See, I bet not all of them are real brother and sister but I look for the amateur ones, they look more real. I looked at her, my mind was blank, who the hell was this girl sitting next to me?? Claire, my younger sister was missing, in her place was this strange girl, I didn’t know who she was.

She ran the mouse over a video, “This one looks real, she’s playing a guitar and starts talking to her brother then they fuck.” I looked at the screen to see a pretty blonde girl with really long thick hair, smiling and talking to the camera. Claire turned up the volume then I sat back and got my introduction to incest. The video ran for about twenty minutes and in that time the girl convinced her brother they should screw, then they screwed. All the way, the fading scene was her fingering cum from her pussy while she cooed soft affection to her brother. My sister didn’t say a word the whole time, she didn’t need to. When the show was over Claire asked, “You want to see more, or do you want to do that with me now?” My younger sister was sitting on my bed brazenly offering to let me fuck her and I was frozen with anxiety. She noted my uncertainty so continued by rationalizing, “If we do it together then we can have sex anytime mom and dad are gone. I think you could like the convenience of having me in the room next to yours. She leaned closer to my face and stated with bold determination, “I’m not some bitch getting paid to make a fuck video, I’m right here, I’m real and I’m horny.” She stood from the bed then repeated without shame, “I don’t want to wait anymore Travis, you don’t have to wait anymore.”

My hands were shaking as I reached for the waistband of her panties and pulled them over her hips and dropped them to the floor. I was staring at her tits which were shaking when Claire reached for my hands and held them against her hips then swayed her ass under my touch. I moved my eyes lower until I was looking at a real live girl’s crack for the first time ever, she said: “Set the movie back to the first time he fucks his sister; I want to see that.”

“It’s not his true sister, she’s the step-sister.”

“I don’t care who she is, back it up, I want to see when he puts it in her the first time.”

I sat up to reset the DVD and when I turned back, Claire was lying directly in the middle of my bed on her back. I sat next to her and began a close intimate inspection of my unexpected playmate. My prick was beginning to stretch the limits of the skin holding it together. She took my hand closest to her body and pulled it over her left tit and pressed it into the softness. Her skin was hot, I could feel her heart thundering under my hand, she was shaking like she was freezing. As I fondled her breast, she put her other hand between my legs and gripped my erection.

My entire body shuttered at her touch. My heart was hammering a thousand beats a minute and I could hardly breathe. Claire started pumping my cock which was spitting drops of clear fluid onto her fingers. She smiled up at me, spread her legs, and urged softly “Touch me down there, rub me and put your finger in me.” I slid my hand off her tit and over her stomach, through soft dark curls then down between her legs. When my fingers touched the hot lips of her sex, she arched her back and flexed her hips, rubbing her cunt on my hand. She hissed sharply when I extended a finger into her crack and felt for her hole.

I pushed my middle finger into the tender opening of her body. Claire was rolling her head back and forth, eyes closed, mouth partly open. She hissed softly every time I pulled my finger out and grunted when I pushed it in. I put my other hand on a tit and played with the nipple. While I was fingering her, she was trying to rip my bloated erection off my body. She reached for my hand and pulled it away. Claire opened her eyes and looked up at me. Moving her head back and forth had thrown her hair over her face, half of it was hidden behind the soft raven waves; one blue eye peered at me through the curls. Her eyes darted briefly to the video just as the step-sister was pulling my guy by his erection toward her pussy. Claire held her arms up and voiced almost silently, “Do it with me, Travis, now.”

I laid on the bed next to my smoking hot sister, she twisted around until we were lying face to face on our sides. My cock was pressed against her thigh. Claire lifted her leg and hooked it over my hip. My erection slipped between her legs and wedged itself against her body. I began to stroke along the lips of her pussy, mixing the fluids seeping from her with mine. She put her arms around me and held me tight, her tits were mashed on my chest. She was moving in waves, gasping for breath in my ear as I humped my ass. She was so hot she set me on fire everywhere we touched. I rolled her to her back, staying locked in her arms so I ended up over her, between her legs. Claire loosened her grip on me so I could maneuver the head of my prick between the sides of pussy. She told me she was a virgin so I asked “Will this hurt you?”

She managed to utter, “No, I used something.” She looked at my video just as the kid was putting the head of his cock into the girl. Claire locked her eyes on mine and urged one more time, “Put it in, I want to know —– I want to feel—–.” My sister rolled her hips and the end of my cock slipped into her. We were still; I could feel the pressure of her hole surrounding the end of my erection which pulsed each time my heart thumped. I bent my back, pushing further into Claire while she lay quiet, looking at me. My ass clenched tight which forced me even deeper into her; she moved her legs farther apart which gave me more room to move. My hands were pushing into the mattress on each side of her head, my arms stiff so I was angled from my head to where our groins touched. All of a sudden, I realized I couldn’t go further; my rock-solid erection was as far into my sister as it would go. Our pubic hairs were tangled, our bodies pinned together by my cock. Neither of us moved for a few seconds, we just looked at each other, then Claire began to smile. She licked her lips with the end of her tongue and flexed her hips, my cock slid out a couple of inches then back in. I returned the smile and pulled out of her until her pubic hair was tickling the end of my cock then thrust back into her. After a second thrust, which she met by pushing back on me, we were fucking.

We were both having sex for the first time so neither of us knew exactly what we were doing. For the first few moments, I was pounding into her while she slammed back on me but we were out of sync. We had no fuck rhythm so I kept slipping out of her. When I did, she would reach for me and help me put my swollen muscle back into her. I slowed down deliberately so she could move with me. It wasn’t long before Claire and I found a rhythm so we were climbing to higher and higher levels of excitement. I marveled at the feeling of sliding in and out of my little sister’s hot limber body. She was moaning softly, hands on my back, holding me close. Her tits were mashed against my chest, her stomach rubbing on mine. I watched her face, every time I shoved my cock deep into her, she gritted her teeth and hissed lightly. I could smell her, I could feel her, I felt her breath on my ear; I wanted all my senses to experience the girl so I bent my head and licked her neck. That final touch, my tongue on her skin triggered my orgasm. I couldn’t stop it; I couldn’t control it. I was hammering her cunt, forcing a flood of fluids deep into Claire. She felt me lose what little control I had and rocked harder with me, letting me fill her with cum.

Maya Devine

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Birthday:November 12, 1971
Place of Birth:Plant City, FL
Home: Unknown, Unknown
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Physical Information:
Measurements: 34C-25-36
Weight: 55 kg (122 lbs)
Height: 168 cm (6 ft 7 in)
Eye Color:Green
Hair Color:Brunette/Blonde/Black/Red
Tattoos: Unknown
Piercings: Piercing
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