Take a look at the not-so-kinky truth about Kink

Kink is frequently characterized as bizarre or unconventional sexual tastes or behavior, as well as anything that deviates from the straight and narrow. Having said that, some sexual activities fall under the “kink umbrella.”

BDSM encompasses a wide range of activities, including light paddle spanking and dominant/submissive role-playing, as well as bondage parties and pain play.

Role-playing and fantasy – Creating imagined situations are one of the most prevalent forms of kinky sex. It could be as easy as discussing a fantasy in bed, dressing up in costumes, or acting out scenes in front of strangers.

Fetishes – Fetish play is described as sexually treating a nonsexual object or bodily part sexually. Feet and shoes, leather or rubber, and diaper play are all common fetishes.

Voyeurism or exhibitionism – Voyeurism includes seeing someone undress or watching a couple have sex without their knowledge while having sex in public is considered exhibitionism. Both are very common and kinky.

Group SexThreesomes, sex parties, orgies, and other acts involving more than two persons are examples of group sex. Eighteen percent of men have had group sex, and even more have expressed interest in the idea.

It’s no surprise that because we don’t talk about kinky sex, there are a lot of myths and misconceptions flying around. So let’s clear the air on a few common myths.

More men are interested in foot fetish play, but more women are interested in experiencing pain as part of sex – Truth: both men and women desire to explore kink equally.

One widespread misconception about those who are interested in BDSM is that they have been abused in the past. Truth: Some members of the BDSM community have been abused in the past, but the majority have NOT.

In the mainstream media, BDSM is frequently associated with abuse and violence. Some practitioners have even endured persecution and discrimination as a result of their kinks. However, the average individual who engages in kink has above-average psychological health.

According to studies, people who consistently practice BDSM have higher levels of relationship and sexual pleasure. Many people are drawn to BDSM by a need for sexual novelty. Sex is the way adults play; it allows them to disengage from reality.

Kinky Requirements

When you think about kinky sex, you might imagine a leather-clad dominatrix swinging a matching whip. But all you need is your imagination and a willing partner.

There are shops for you if you like certain fetishes or want to learn more about a kink. Attempting kink requires far less equipment than, say, participating in your local volleyball club. If you want to experiment with sensory deprivation or restraints, you don’t even need blindfolds or handcuffs; a knot or pillowcase will do.

Keeping Kink Safe

Even though kinky sex has many benefits and may be what you and your partner want, there are a few things you should keep in mind to ensure that your play is fun, safe, and positive.

Consent is something that should happen before any sex act, especially if you’re trying something kinky for the first time. Communication is essential in play as well as when exploring dominant/submissive roles or potentially causing pain.

Restraints or resistance may be a part of your fantasy, which is more prevalent among women than you might imagine. Use a safe word you agree on before you become kinky to ensure you can say no in your kink while still being able to communicate no to your partner clearly. Use safe words like red light (halt) and green light (keep going).

Everyone has various limits and bounds. While being open to new bedroom activities is fantastic, being honest about what you don’t want to explore (as in never, ever) is also vital. Discuss these hard limits with your partner frankly; there’s no need to be coy.

A huge aspect of kinky sex is combining pain and pleasure. Although some couples draw the line at mild spanking or slapping, others who explore further routes such as breast and genital pain should educate themselves so that they do not cause serious or long-term harm to tissue or nerves.

Kink can appear different for everyone, and that’s fine. Exploring kink doesn’t have to start with purchasing a latex bodysuit and a whip. It might be as simple as seeing what happens try something new in the bedroom and enter a new world of sex.

The basics of kinky sex are identical to those of any strong, long-term relationship: communication, trust, understanding, and patience.

Now that you know that Kinky is not only acceptable, it’s also healthy for your mind and body! Stop wasting time… embrace your inner Kinkster!

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